Memorial Day

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May 302016

Happy Memorial Day! It’s especially happy for those of you who have a vacation day. My husband, my father, my two brothers, and a niece were in the service. My younger brother was the only one who remained in the service for twenty years. He met his wife in Thailand, so being in the Army was a good thing for him. 🙂

Yesterday, my husband and I were at a flea market. Since we plan on moving to a smaller home within the year, all we bought was kettle corn. (And it was delicious!) My husband was wearing his dog tags, which he does every Memorial Day. Someone noticed and thanked him for his service. My husband looked uncomfortable. I think that was the first time he was thanked. More important to him than gratitude would be that the government takes care of the veterans – mentally and emotionally as well as physically. And do it in a timely manner. This is a blog about searching for happiness, and that would bring happiness to a lot of veterans and their families.

Like Forest Gump says, “That’s all I have to say about that.”

artRight now, my husband and I live in southeastern Wisconsin. The Milwaukee Art Museum is beautiful, with wings that open on top of an extension, designed by Spanish architect Santiago Calatrava. Every June, the Museum hosts a three-day art festival, and they let veterans come in free. Gotta say, we like that, too.

Today is my blog day at Magical Musings. I’m talking about Love For All Ages. It’s not a promo blog, though I do mention that a book which will be out later this summer has an older hero and heroine than the usual. Hop over and read it, and let me know what you think.

I hope you’re having a great weekend. The weather is perfect by us today, though we have no plans. What have you done this weekend that made you happy?

May 272016

Everyone has a story. Everyone has something good happen … and everyone has something bad happen. But I’ve known people who have everything – and they’re always complaining. I had a friend who was dying, and she never complained. Not once. Instead, she seemed to cherish every moment she had left.

Rose the Beagle

Rose the beagle

I’m not a saint. I complain. I judge. And then I catch myself and try not to complain or judge. It seems to me our reactions – what we dwell on – makes us either sad and angry or happy and looking forward to the next step in our lives. Through the years, my husband and I have had four dogs and one cat. Our dogs especially were spoiled. They loved eating, they loved us, they loved chasing balls, they loved naps. (Apologies to any men reading this, but doesn’t that sound like someone’s husband?)

If someone passed our yard, the dogs barked. Very territorial. (Like some men again, though all our dogs were females, and so is our cat.)

Sky, our English setter, field type

Sky, our English setter, field type

All our dogs were hunting dogs: two English springer spaniels, one English setter, and one beagle. They shared a lot of qualities: energetic, affectionate, loud, hating baths – every single one – and were often a source of laughter and joy.

Cats are different creatures. Our last two dogs passed a year and a half ago, a few months apart. At first, we were too sad to adopt another dog. We were grieving. Since we might move to another state next spring, we decided to wait until after we move before adopting again. We already had our cat, so we weren’t without a fur baby.

Belle is our first cat, and she has a lot of typical cat behaviors. She sometimes will come when we call her but only when she wants to come. I think she’s showing us that she’s the boss, not us. And she gets bored easily. Almost up to the end of their lives, our dogs were eager to chase a ball. That never got old. Not so for our cat. Cat toys lose their entertainment value quickly for her.

Belle is older now, but she's not much bigger.

Belle is older now, but she’s not much bigger.

Still, she can be very loving (when she wants). She does that kneading/massaging thing on my thigh. And she purrs. Her purrs make me happy. Other times, she pushes the top of her head into my palm, letting me know that she wants me to pet her. Because she’s so picky, if she shows the smallest sign that she wants some loving from me, I feel privileged and I love her more for it.

People are more like cats that way, though if my quest is for happiness, I should want to be a dog. Wanting to play. Wanting to run and cuddle and lick and sniff. Wanting total happiness, no matter how dopey I look. Yet a part of me still wants to be a cool and sometimes standoffish (but perfectly groomed) cat. On the other hand, I know the dogs are happier.

I guess this indecision shows my humanity. I want it all, and we humans complicate everything.

What about you? What animal would you prefer to be? 

On Fire!

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Apr 142016

Raining Love and Murder-300x450So happy today! Raining Love & Murder (Love & Murder Book 4) is at my copy editor’s for a final read. After that, it will go to my proofreader. Even then, I won’t be ready to publish. I’m writing another book. In fact, I have summaries of plots for three books, and I wrote them all today. I’m on fire today!

I’m not waiting to finish all three before publishing Raining L&M. Not even one. My next book will be a Christmas book, and I’m going to write enough to include an excerpt in the back of Love & Murder. Sylvia, from Rules of Love & Murder and A Love & Murder Christmas will be a main character in Book 5.

I’ll be giving away e-arcs when the book is done. If you’re interested, let me know and I’ll put you on my list.

I hope you’re having a great day, too!

First draft

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Feb 222016

My first draft of Raining Love & Murder is done. But instead of dancing or celebrating, I feel drained. I need to sleep and watch TV for the rest of the night. Tomorrow I’ll try to catch up with my life. I’m the type of person that does one thing at a time, but my cat (who is purring on my desk now, and climbing on my lap – now she’s kneading my leg and playing with my mouse) seems to think that the ‘one thing’ should be petting her. She’s probably right.

Next week or sooner, I’ll start on my second draft. And that will be my ‘one thing.’ I will still pet the cat, because she’s pretty bossy.

What is your most important ‘one thing’? And who tries to derail you?


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Jan 102016

For 3 days, from today through Tuesday, my Love & Murder books are on sale for only 0.99 each at Kindle – and FREE with Kindle Unlimited.

If you don’t have a Kindle, you can download their free app, which works on every device. You can find the three books here:

Don’t forget to leave a review!

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“The Love & Murder series by Edie Ramer is heartfelt, edgy and genuine, with characters that jump from the page.” ~Michelle Diener, International bestselling author

Buy the books now, before the prices go up:
Truth About Love & Murder, Book 1:
Rules of Love & Murder, Book 2:
A Christmas Love & Murder, Book 3:

Or see all threebooks here:

Read more about my $50 Gift Card giveaway and join my newsletter to find out first about new releases, special deals and sales.

Free Book!

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Dec 272015

I hope you all had a lovely holiday. If you’re like me, you’re already loading up your ereader with new books now. My first Love & Murder book, TRUTH ABOUT LOVE & MURDER is free through Dec. 30th on Amazon Kindle. If you don’t have a Kindle, you can get the free Kindle app to read Kindle books. Though I have a Kindle – and a Kindle Fire – I also have the app. I sometimes use the app to read on my laptop. You can use it on your phone, too. And on all Apple products.

If you are a KU subscriber, RULES OF lOVE & MURDER and A LOVE & MURDER CHRISTMAS are on KU, too, and you can get all three books for free.

If you aren’t, I will be having sales on those books in the near future. When it’s on, I’ll be sending my newsletter subscriber details. So if you’re not signed up, now is the right time. And be sure to check out my $50 Gift Card giveaway details.

Wishing all of you a wonderful end o the 2015, and an amazing 2016!

Giving away an ebook at Delilah Devlin’s blog and MORE!

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Dec 042015

Hop over to Delilah Devlin’s blog where I’m giving away an ebook of A LOVE & MURDER CHRISTMAS to one commenter!

Also, Mary Hughes is giving away books on Facebook at Treat Yourself Right This Holiday Season. Check it out!

Also, check out Friday Finds at Magical Musings. Every Friday, we feature newly released books, 99 cent books, free books, etc. I’ve found great books there that I’ve read.

I’m starting my next Love & Murder book, titled RAINING LOVE & MURDER. Yay! If you’ve read the other Love & Murder books, Chuck (Sylvia’s son) is the hero. I love this series. I love all my books, of course, but this is my favorite series.

And if you haven’t checked out my $50 Gift Card page, now is the time to do it.

Happy Friday, and I hope you have a lovely weekend.

What does Christmas mean to you – one word answer!

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Dec 012015

A Love and Murder Christmas-266x400I’m at Treat Yourself Right This Holiday Season, where author Mary Hughes is doing a lot of giveaways. My post is up, and I’ve giving away an ecopy or A LOVE & MURDER CHRISTMAS to 2 commenters on the Facebook page. Hope over there and give your word (and if you have more than one word, that counts, too).

I’m not sure how long before Mary closes the post, but she’s doing this all week, I believe, so you have a chance to win a different book. Lots of great authors. Lots of fun!

Win the top 20 best pet books

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Sep 232015

I’m thrilled that CATTITUDE, the first book I published, is one of the top 20 pet books. CATTITUDE was the first book I published, and I loved that book. Loved the attitude of the cat. Loved the woman she turned into. Loved the cat the original woman turned into. Loved the hero, his sister, his brother… Loved so much about it, and I’m happy it’s staying in that top 20.

The collage of the top 20 is below, and you can hop over to Vanessa Morgan’s blog to find out the details that will give you the chance to win all these lovely books about pets. And there are some great ones!